Demelza (Demi) Rowe, BACP

Experienced relational therapist for trauma and intimacy

Trauma and relationship work
Sex and intimacy specialist
Integrative practical approach

About Demelza (Demi) Rowe

Demelza (Demi) Rowe brings sixteen years of clinical experience supporting individuals and couples through a wide range of challenges including trauma, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, dissociation, and personality difficulties. She specialises in relationships, sex, and intimacy, having qualified as a Couples and Relationship Counsellor in 2012, and holds additional specialist qualifications in grief and bereavement, trauma, abuse, and mental health.

Her practice is informed by an integrative style that combines the foundational elements of person-centered counselling - such as unconditional positive regard, a nonjudgmental stance, and genuine congruence - with practical techniques drawn from approaches like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Gestalt, Psychodynamic work, Transactional Analysis, and Rational Emotive Therapy. Demi emphasises clear, accessible explanations so clients understand what is happening, why it is happening, and how they can learn to manage the issues that cause distress.

She describes her approach as friendly and supportive, focused on helping people build resilience, healthier relationships, and greater confidence. Demi aims to equip clients with a range of tools, information, and strategies so they can lead fuller, more satisfying lives. She is a member of the BACP - the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - which reflects her professional affiliation with the national counselling body.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also Specializes In

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Mindfulness Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Demelza (Demi) Rowe have?

Demelza (Demi) Rowe has 16 years of professional experience working with individuals and couples facing a wide range of mental health and relationship challenges.

Is Demelza (Demi) Rowe a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the BACP credential. BACP stands for the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, which is a professional body for counsellors and psychotherapists in the UK.

In which languages does Demelza (Demi) Rowe provide therapy?

Demelza (Demi) Rowe provides therapy in English.

Where is Demelza (Demi) Rowe located?

She is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Demelza (Demi) Rowe as my therapist?

You can work with Demelza (Demi) Rowe through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Demelza (Demi) Rowe work with international clients?

Demelza (Demi) Rowe does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Demelza (Demi) Rowe cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire to help match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic approaches and the benefits of online care

Demelza (Demi) Rowe uses a blend of established therapies to address both emotional and relational concerns. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early bonds influence current relationships and helps people improve security and connection in their partnerships and family ties. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening with empathy and offering unconditional positive regard so clients can explore their feelings and find their own solutions - this approach is helpful for building self-esteem and navigating life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviours and teaches practical strategies to manage anxiety, low mood, and unhelpful patterns.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey. Demi works collaboratively with each person to identify goals, try different techniques, and tailor the work to individual needs and preferences so the approach fits the client rather than the other way around.

Online therapy with Demi is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, which provides flexibility for people balancing work, family, or mobility needs. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care and access therapeutic support from the United Kingdom without the need to travel.

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