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Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess, LMFT

Marriage and family therapist guiding growth
  • Relationship-focused care
  • Stress and anxiety support
  • Family systems expertise

About Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess

Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who helps people better understand and accept themselves while identifying obstacles to wellbeing and creating a practical road map toward improved health. He begins by getting a clear picture of a client’s presenting concerns and life circumstances, then collaborates on a forward-looking vision that guides treatment. Using a mix of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and family counseling ideas, he explores how experiences shape beliefs, expectations, and relationship patterns, and he supports clients in questioning and reshaping thoughts that are limiting or no longer useful.

Gabe integrates behavioral techniques, mindfulness practices, and Motivational Interviewing to support mood management, decision making, and problem solving. He places emphasis on building communication skills to improve self-advocacy within relationships and family systems. Over the course of his career he has worked with individuals, couples, and families facing relationship challenges, anxiety and mood concerns, and general stress management.

Gabe graduated from The Family Institute at Northwestern and practices in Chicago, Illinois. With two decades of clinical experience and the LMFT credential, he brings a practical, compassionate approach to helping clients navigate change and pursue more satisfying relationships and lives.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesCareer difficulties

Also Specializes In

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional Focus Areas

Blended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameInfidelityLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Mindfulness Therapy Motivational Interviewing Narrative Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess have?

Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess has 20 years of experience.

Is Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess a licensed therapist?

Yes. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). Illinois license: IL LMFT 166000965.

In which languages does Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess located?

He is located in Illinois.

How can I work with Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess as my therapist?

You can work with Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess work with international clients?

Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Approach-Focused Online Therapy



Gabriel "Gabe" Seldess draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help clients identify and change unhelpful thought patterns and behaviors - a practical approach that can reduce worry, improve mood, and support coping with stress. He also uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), which encourages people to clarify values, accept difficult emotions, and commit to meaningful action; this approach often helps with life transitions, anxiety, and motivation. In addition, he incorporates client-centered principles that prioritize a respectful, empathetic therapeutic relationship and help clients feel heard as they explore goals and challenges.

Finding the right approach is part of the work itself. Gabe collaborates with each person to determine which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences, adjusting strategies as progress unfolds so treatment remains tailored and practical.

Online therapy with Gabe is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, giving clients flexibility to engage in care from home, work, or other convenient locations. These options make it easier to maintain consistency, fit sessions into busy schedules, and access support in ways that suit individual routines and learning styles.

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