Haley Harmer, LPC

Licensed counselor for families and individuals

Children youth and families
Trauma anxiety and depression
Video phone and messaging

About Haley Harmer

Haley Harmer is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Oklahoma with 11 years of clinical experience working primarily with children, youth, and families while also supporting individuals across the lifespan. She has assisted clients facing a wide range of concerns including trauma and abuse, depression and anxiety, boundary and relationship challenges, complex family dynamics, and parenting difficulties. Her training and practical experience have cultivated a broad, adaptable skill set for addressing mental health needs in both individual and family contexts.

Haley draws on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and client-centered approaches, and she adapts her plans to reflect each person’s unique circumstances and goals. Her work emphasizes a warm, inviting, and understanding therapeutic presence, guided by respect, empathy, and compassion. She describes her guiding value as "Everybody Always," which underscores an inclusive, nonjudgmental approach to care.

Haley focuses on empowering clients to recognize and use their own strengths as they move toward change and healing. She aims to listen deeply, offer practical guidance, and collaborate with each person to build a treatment path that fits their life and goals.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuse Depression

Also Specializes In

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Gottman Method Mindfulness Therapy Narrative Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Haley Harmer have?

Haley Harmer has 11 years of experience as a therapist.

Is Haley Harmer a licensed therapist?

Yes. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma. License details: OK LPC LPC06873.

In which languages does Haley Harmer provide therapy?

Haley provides therapy in English.

Where is Haley Harmer located?

Haley is located in Oklahoma.

How can I work with Haley Harmer as my therapist?

You can work with Haley Harmer through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Haley Harmer work with international clients?

Haley Harmer does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Haley Harmer cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Integrating therapeutic approaches with online care

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, helps people identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety and depression and to develop practical coping strategies. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a supportive, nonjudgmental relationship in which the therapist offers empathy and reflection to help clients explore their feelings and discover their own solutions. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns of relating and connection formed in early relationships and can be especially helpful for family dynamics, attachment concerns, and relationship difficulties.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Haley works with each person to assess their needs, preferences, and goals and then tailors techniques from these approaches into a treatment plan that feels like a good fit. That collaboration helps ensure the work aligns with what matters most to the client.

Online therapy options - including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging - make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and to access care from home or while traveling. These formats support continuity of care, flexible scheduling, and multiple ways to communicate so clients can choose what works best for their situation and comfort level.

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