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James Costigan, BACP

Therapist helping men find calm confidence
  • Men-focused therapy
  • Evidence-informed approaches
  • Flexible online sessions

About James Costigan

James Costigan is a therapist in the United Kingdom who focuses on helping men create a calmer, more confident life. He works with people carrying pressure in silence, offering a steady and compassionate presence where clients can slow down, build self-awareness and make sense of difficult emotions. Over nine years of practice, he has supported men with anxiety, depression, stress, relationship difficulties, addictions including problematic porn use, and a general sense of feeling lost, as well as challenges around career pressure and personal development.

His approach combines practical tools with reflective exploration, allowing each person to move at a pace that feels right. James draws on his corporate experience to help clients manage professional expectations and performance-related stress, while also addressing intimacy-related concerns, communication and attachment patterns that can affect relationships. He aims to help clients grow from their struggles, heal from formative experiences and develop steadier ways of meeting life's demands.

James holds the BACP credential - membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, a professional organisation for counsellors and psychotherapists in the UK. He accepts clients in the United Kingdom and internationally, offering therapy through video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Also Specializes In

LGBTIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Mindfulness Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does James Costigan have?

James has nine years of experience working as a therapist.

Is James Costigan a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the BACP credential - membership of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, a professional organisation for counsellors and psychotherapists in the UK.

In which languages does James Costigan provide therapy?

James provides therapy in English.

Where is James Costigan located?

James is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with James Costigan as my therapist?

You can work with James through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does James Costigan work with international clients?

Yes, James works with international clients.

How much does therapy with James Costigan cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support for Men

James uses client-centered therapy to create a supportive space where men can be heard without judgment; this approach emphasizes empathy and helps individuals explore their feelings, identity and relationship patterns so they can develop greater self-understanding. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to identify unhelpful thought and behaviour patterns and introduce practical strategies for managing symptoms like anxiety, low mood and addictive behaviours. Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attention and awareness practices that can reduce rumination and help people respond to stress with more clarity and calm.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and James works collaboratively with each client to determine what fits best based on their needs, goals and preferences. He adapts methods over time so therapy remains relevant and effective for the individual.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility - sessions can take place by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging, making it easier to fit work, family and travel into a schedule. These options increase access for people in different locations and allow therapists and licensed professionals to provide consistent, ongoing support in ways that suit each client’s life.

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