John Alilovich, LMFT
John Alilovich, Experienced California LMFT
- Relationship and trauma
- Family and parenting
- Works with international clients
About John Alilovich
John Alilovich is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with four decades of clinical experience supporting individuals, couples, and families. He spent more than fifteen years working in the county mental health department with children and families, focusing on substance addiction, domestic violence, relationship and marriage issues, various forms of abuse, parenting concerns, and LGBTQ families. During that period he also launched a private practice, and he continues to see a wide range of clients across many life stages and challenges.
His therapeutic approach is warm and personal, centered on getting to know each person as the expert on their own life. He emphasizes collaboration in setting goals and identifying practical solutions that fit a client’s circumstances. He brings sensitivity, respect, and a nonjudgmental stance to sessions, tailoring methods to the individual rather than applying a single template.
John integrates several modalities in his work, including Emotion Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, mindfulness practices, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). By learning about a client’s history, strengths, and needs, he determines which combination of approaches is most likely to support meaningful change and long-term growth.
His therapeutic approach is warm and personal, centered on getting to know each person as the expert on their own life. He emphasizes collaboration in setting goals and identifying practical solutions that fit a client’s circumstances. He brings sensitivity, respect, and a nonjudgmental stance to sessions, tailoring methods to the individual rather than applying a single template.
John integrates several modalities in his work, including Emotion Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, mindfulness practices, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). By learning about a client’s history, strengths, and needs, he determines which combination of approaches is most likely to support meaningful change and long-term growth.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingADHD
Additional Focus Areas
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCodependencyDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessInfidelityIntellectual disabilityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Somatic Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does John Alilovich have?
John Alilovich has 40 years of experience in clinical practice.
Is John Alilovich a licensed therapist?
Yes. He holds the credential LMFT, which indicates he is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California - CA LMFT MFT27006.
In which languages does John Alilovich provide therapy?
John provides therapy in English.
Where is John Alilovich located?
John is located in California.
How can I work with John Alilovich as my therapist?
You can work with John through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does John Alilovich work with international clients?
Yes, John works with international clients.
How much does therapy with John Alilovich cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care
John brings several evidence-informed approaches to online work, including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy, and Client-Centered Therapy. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps clients clarify personal values, accept difficult emotions, and take committed action toward meaningful goals - it can be useful for anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns of relating that develop in close relationships and can help address issues like abandonment, intimacy problems, and family conflict. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes empathetic listening and unconditional respect, creating a space where clients can explore identity, self-esteem, and relationship concerns at their own pace.Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. John works collaboratively with each person to identify which methods align with their needs, goals, and preferences, and he adapts strategies over time as progress unfolds.
Online sessions - by video, phone, live chat, or text messaging - offer flexibility for people with busy schedules, caregiving responsibilities, or geographic constraints. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care, access regular support, and integrate therapy into daily life while still working with licensed professionals and therapists who tailor care to individual circumstances.