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Lilia Gonzalez-Joly, LMFT

California LMFT focused on relational healing
  • Relationship and family therapy
  • Trauma and self-esteem support
  • English and Spanish services

About Lilia Gonzalez-Joly

Lilia Gonzalez-Joly is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with 16 years of professional experience. She focuses on relationship and family dynamics, helping people respond to trauma and abuse and rebuild motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. She creates an open, nonjudgmental environment where emotions and thoughts can be explored honestly and without fear of criticism.

Working with Lilia involves practical, strengths-based support aimed at clearer communication, healthier boundaries, and renewed purpose. She addresses communication problems, forgiveness, guilt and shame, life purpose, and self-love while tailoring guidance to each person or family’s unique concerns. Lilia frames change as a courageous process and partners with clients to empower them through each step toward a more fulfilling and happier life.

Her work blends clinical experience with a calm, supportive presence so clients can practice new ways of relating to themselves and others. Lilia emphasizes collaboration, respect for individual values, and building sustainable skills that support long-term growth and improved relationships.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Additional Focus Areas

Communication problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameLife purposeSelf-love

Therapeutic Approach

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Existential Therapy Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Gottman Method Jungian Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Motivational Interviewing Narrative Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Lilia Gonzalez-Joly have?

Lilia Gonzalez-Joly has 16 years of professional experience.

Is Lilia Gonzalez-Joly a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credential LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details: CA LMFT 106107.

In which languages does Lilia Gonzalez-Joly provide therapy?

She provides therapy in English and Spanish.

Where is Lilia Gonzalez-Joly located?

She is located in California.

How can I work with Lilia Gonzalez-Joly as my therapist?

You can work with Lilia Gonzalez-Joly through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Lilia Gonzalez-Joly work with international clients?

Lilia Gonzalez-Joly does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Lilia Gonzalez-Joly cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care



Lilia integrates approaches that support relationships and emotional healing, tailoring them to the needs of each person or family. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early connection patterns influence present relationships and helps people rebuild trust and secure bonds, which can be especially useful for partners and family members working through repeated conflicts. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) focuses on identifying and reshaping emotional responses in close relationships to create deeper understanding and stronger emotional connection. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages clients to clarify personal values, accept difficult feelings without avoidance, and take committed action toward meaningful life goals - a helpful fit for struggles with motivation, self-esteem, and purpose.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Lilia works collaboratively with clients and other licensed professionals to determine which methods align with each person’s goals, preferences, and life circumstances, adjusting the plan as progress unfolds.

Online therapy options such as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging make it easier to fit counseling into busy schedules and to maintain continuity of care from different locations. These formats offer flexibility for scheduling, allow for ongoing support between sessions, and help people access therapy in ways that match their communication style and daily routine.

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