Dr. Lou Bordisso, LMFT
Experienced LMFT for LGBTQ+ and life transitions
- 35 years experience
- LMFT in California
- Affirming relationship therapy
About Dr. Lou Bordisso
Dr. Lou Bordisso is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 35 years of clinical experience working in California. He focuses on guiding individuals through complex emotional challenges related to identity, relationships, and major life transitions, with particular expertise supporting LGBTQ+ communities and addressing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and addictions.
His practice emphasizes a compassionate, affirming approach that helps people develop greater self-awareness, strengthen self-esteem, and improve communication in relationships. He works with clients facing midlife issues, young adult transitions, workplace stress, and other complicated personal dynamics, offering a steady, nonjudgmental space for exploration and growth.
Dr. Bordisso prioritizes inclusive care that recognizes the intersections of identity and mental health, and he aims to help clients build resilience, deepen their connections, and find clearer direction in their lives. Whether the concern is social anxiety, relationship difficulties, or a desire for deeper personal understanding, he provides clinical support tailored to each person’s goals and circumstances.
His practice emphasizes a compassionate, affirming approach that helps people develop greater self-awareness, strengthen self-esteem, and improve communication in relationships. He works with clients facing midlife issues, young adult transitions, workplace stress, and other complicated personal dynamics, offering a steady, nonjudgmental space for exploration and growth.
Dr. Bordisso prioritizes inclusive care that recognizes the intersections of identity and mental health, and he aims to help clients build resilience, deepen their connections, and find clearer direction in their lives. Whether the concern is social anxiety, relationship difficulties, or a desire for deeper personal understanding, he provides clinical support tailored to each person’s goals and circumstances.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes
Additional Focus Areas
AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityEmptinessFamily of origin issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does Dr. Lou Bordisso have?
Dr. Lou Bordisso has 35 years of experience as a practicing therapist.
Is Dr. Lou Bordisso a licensed therapist?
Yes. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California - CA LMFT 22768.
In which languages does Dr. Lou Bordisso provide therapy?
Dr. Lou Bordisso provides therapy in English.
Where is Dr. Lou Bordisso located?
Dr. Lou Bordisso is located in California.
How can I work with Dr. Lou Bordisso as my therapist?
You can work with Dr. Lou Bordisso through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does Dr. Lou Bordisso work with international clients?
Dr. Lou Bordisso does not currently work with international clients.
How much does therapy with Dr. Lou Bordisso cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Therapeutic Approaches and Accessible Online Care
Dr. Lou Bordisso integrates client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and existential therapy into his online practice to meet a range of needs. Client-centered therapy focuses on creating an accepting, empathetic environment where the therapist follows the client's pace and priorities, supporting growth, self-acceptance, and improved relationships. CBT helps clients identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, which can reduce symptoms of stress, anxiety, and mood concerns and improve coping strategies. Existential therapy invites exploration of meaning, values, and life choices, which can be especially useful when facing major transitions, questions about identity, or feelings of emptiness.Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and Dr. Lou Bordisso works collaboratively with each person to determine which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences. He tailors the work over time, combining techniques as appropriate to support practical change and deeper self-understanding.
Online therapy with Dr. Bordisso is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, providing flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care during life changes, travel, or busy routines, while allowing licensed professionals to deliver consistent therapeutic support across distance.