Sharlin Paul, BACP
- Trauma and anxiety support
- Couples and relationship work
- Long-term change focused
About Sharlin Paul
She specialises in childhood trauma and works with a wide spectrum of concerns including stress, family difficulties, addiction recovery, attachment and communication problems, and feelings of emptiness or lack of direction. Her approach is warm, compassionate, and non-judgmental, rooted in the belief that a strong therapeutic relationship is central to meaningful change.
Sharlin integrates psychodynamic work to uncover how early experiences and unconscious patterns shape present life, alongside client-centered and solution-focused methods that emphasise collaboration and actionable steps. Together with each client she identifies goals and co-creates a plan that may include reflective exploration, practical tools, and exercises to practice between sessions. She typically works with clients over a course of sessions rather than offering single, one-off meetings, reflecting a commitment to lasting progress.
She is a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP - which represents counselling and psychotherapy professionals. Sharlin has also completed continuing professional development trainings in areas such as play therapy, couples and sex therapy, working with metaphors, eating disorders, anger management, and goal setting and motivation. She has been featured on Channel 5 and welcomes clients who are ready to explore change with kindness and clarity.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does Sharlin Paul have?
Sharlin Paul has 10 years of experience.
Is Sharlin Paul a licensed therapist?
Yes. She holds BACP membership, which is with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
In which languages does Sharlin Paul provide therapy?
Therapy is provided in English.
Where is Sharlin Paul located?
Sharlin Paul is located in the United Kingdom.
How can I work with Sharlin Paul as my therapist?
You can work with Sharlin Paul through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does Sharlin Paul work with international clients?
Yes, Sharlin Paul works with international clients.
How much does therapy with Sharlin Paul cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Therapeutic Approaches and Online Support
Sharlin uses client-centered work to place the client’s experience at the heart of therapy, offering empathetic listening and collaborative goal setting to help people feel heard and understood. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, complements this by offering structured techniques to identify and shift unhelpful thinking patterns and behaviors, which can be especially useful for anxiety, depression, and stress. Psychodynamic exploration helps uncover how past relationships and early experiences influence present patterns, offering deeper insight into attachment issues and recurring emotional themes.
Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic journey. Sharlin works collaboratively with clients to determine which blend of methods fits their needs, goals, and preferences, adjusting the plan as progress unfolds. This collaborative process helps tailor work to each person’s situation rather than following a rigid protocol.
Online therapy with Sharlin is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, providing flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. These options make it easier to access regular sessions from home or while travelling, support continuity of care for international clients, and allow practical ways to integrate therapy into a busy life.