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Tamolyn Benke, MN Psychologist LP0185

Minnesota psychologist for coping and growth
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Family and parenting
  • CBT and client-centered

About Tamolyn Benke

Tamolyn Benke is a Minnesota-based psychologist who brings a thoughtful, collaborative approach to helping people manage stress, relationships, parenting challenges, grief, and other life transitions. She holds a Master’s degree in counseling psychology and maintains a license with the Minnesota Board of Psychology - MN Psychologist LP0185, which authorizes her to practice psychology in Minnesota. With a focus on how thoughts, behaviors, and emotions interact, she guides clients to reframe unhelpful thinking, try new behaviors, and build stronger coping skills to improve emotional wellbeing.

Her work emphasizes partnership - she and the client define the issues together, set concrete goals, and regularly check in on difficult emotions that arise during change. Tamolyn helps clients translate what they learn in sessions into practical strategies that can be used as new challenges emerge. Whether addressing anxiety, depression, family dynamics, or midlife concerns, she centers the client’s priorities and supports steady progress toward clearer thinking and more effective coping.

Over time Tamolyn aims to empower people to apply therapeutic insights across the many ups and downs of life, helping them build resilience and greater self-understanding.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsParenting issuesSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also Specializes In

Relationship issuesGriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoaching

Additional Focus Areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Tamolyn Benke have?

Tamolyn Benke has 20 years of experience.

Is Tamolyn Benke a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds MN Psychologist LP0185, a license from the Minnesota Board of Psychology that authorizes practice as a psychologist in Minnesota.

In which languages does Tamolyn Benke provide therapy?

Tamolyn provides therapy in English.

Where is Tamolyn Benke located?

Tamolyn is located in Minnesota.

How can I work with Tamolyn Benke as my therapist?

You can work with Tamolyn Benke through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Tamolyn Benke work with international clients?

Tamolyn Benke does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Tamolyn Benke cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Therapeutic Approaches and Online Care



Tamolyn commonly uses client-centered therapy, a collaborative approach that focuses on understanding each person’s experience and building a trusting relationship. In this style she listens closely, reflects the client’s concerns, and supports clients as they identify their own goals and solutions for issues like family conflict, caregiving stress, or feelings of emptiness.

She also integrates cognitive behavioral therapy - CBT - which helps people identify unhelpful thought patterns and test new behaviors. CBT is practical and skills-focused, often useful for addressing anxiety, depression, stress management, and coping with life transitions by teaching tools to reframe thinking and change responses.

Finding the right approach is part of the work and is done collaboratively. Tamolyn will help assess a client’s needs, goals, and preferences and recommend strategies that fit those priorities. Together the therapist and client adjust methods over time to find what works best.

Online therapy with Tamolyn can be provided through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options offer flexibility for scheduling, make ongoing care more accessible across busy routines, and allow clients to engage in therapy from different locations while working with licensed professionals and therapists who can support progress and practical change.

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